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What is the code phrase for saying no? 9/19/2016
I have met two different couples in the recent past and during
our initial meet they were both very excited and said they
wanted to hook up and have fun. A few days later, they said
"we are really busy right now". Now this isn't
my first rodeo and it just seemed a bit odd that they were
suddenly too busy to connect up. I presume this is swinger
code for "no thanks". Can anyone verify this?
I ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
4 Votes
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Crying through the whole first date? No. 9/17/2016
Take it from me, if you are going to cry for the whole first
date, you're not going to get a second one. It happened
to me. I met a lady, and she balled for the whole hour long
date. I'm a kind person, so i tried to reassure her and
I didn't run away. But, needless to say, she was in no
place to be dating. She really needed to work some things
out. I get it, it can be really lonely when you ...
1 Comments, 16 Views,
2 Votes
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Is it rude to say "No Thanks"? 9/16/2016
I think we all need to learn when to say it and when to hear
it without comment. Let's bring back "no, thank
you" and follow it with a full stop.
In this world of over-sharing, it can be tough to stop at
"no, thank you." It feels awkward, but you will
get used to it.
You are not being rude by saying "no, thank you."
Anyone who refuses to accept it is being rude by questioning ...
0 Comments, 37 Views,
7 Votes
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being polite 9/12/2016
we are all here pretty much here for the same reason...
this doesn't mean that one should insult or be impolite
to each other... the way I see it - there is either attraction or not - if not
- say no, no thanks or not my type...
I understand that this refers mainly to responses from
women to men BUT some men also need to accept a NO and not further
bother the ladies on this ...
1 Comments, 14 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Personal Preference versus Racism 8/30/2016
I'm all about equality in life, every human being has
a fundamental right to try to make a living and find happiness.
I may not like some aspects of how a given group of people
approach their ethical practices towards others, but
it is behavior that transcends race and creed.
That being said, I was recently approached on another site
by a woman. Nice, similar cultural interests, ...
3 Comments, 43 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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The Best Ways to Say No! 8/30/2016
So I am always curious what a woman on here believes is the
"best way" to say no to someone she is not interested
in.
I know a fair number have decided not responding is a solid
route to get men to stop messaging them. At least eventually.
Women, what have you found is the best way to let a man know
"I am not interested' but at the same time get
a man to stop messaging you over ...
5 Comments, 29 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Just be Candid 8/26/2016
One of the more difficult things we encounter is to 'not
feel the same way' as someone we might meet. In other
words- we simply are not attracted to them and would prefer
not having intimate relations. How best to let someone
down
In my experience candor with compassion is the best way.
We are all humans with many insecurities and doubts. No
one is perfect and no one is for everyone. ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
2 Votes
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Tea compared to sex 8/26/2016
If somebody offers you tea or coffee- and you say yes- that
does not necessarily mean that you Will have tea every time
you are together with this person.
The same goes with sex.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
4 Votes
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SENSITIVE EGOS 8/25/2016
Some people just don't take "no thanks"
very well. If someone gets on your nerves...
My advice:
When it comes to blocking memebers, don't forget to
be on the FULL site (go through My Account, Blocked Members)
so that you can check ALL the boxes to block them from seeing
your profile (which contains multiple vulnerabilities).
Just blocking someone on the MOBILE site only ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
3 Votes
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Fake Profile Pics 8/15/2016
Don't you dislike it when the person you're chatting
or planning on seeing is really lying about themselves.
Why? Just be real.
2 Comments, 22 Views,
6 Votes
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Sorry, Ill have to decline 8/15/2016
I have no problem responding back, even if I dont want a meet
and greet. But sometimes I may want to still talk. So many
guys on here are so focus on the meet and greet that they miss
out on other opportunities. Like phone sex, I would be open
to that or playing sex games on the IM. Not everytime you
message a girl will lead to an physical encounter, but at
least there is still fun to be had.
2 Comments, 43 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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what happened? 8/7/2016
you know it really bites when you're trying to just
say hello on the IM and people don't respond. Id much
rather hear not interested than wonder if my IM isn't
working. then it's me sitting there wasting my time
and points trying to get a message through to the person
and not understanding why this isn't working?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
4 Votes
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What a great idea 7/27/2016
It would be amazing if people could just say no thanks. Makes
denial easier, and less wondering on both sides.
3 Comments, 29 Views,
9 Votes
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i wanted to but? 7/22/2016
after letting the very have me one of them rang
my phone at 9 pm a few nights later and ask to come to my home,
I was unsure as to tell him where I lived but as I was feeling
randy I gave him my address, I raced to shower before he arrived
as I wanted to be nice and fresh for what I hoped would come,
when the bell rang I couldn't wait to open the door even
though I was naked as I pulled it open ...
8 Comments, 596 Views,
41 Votes
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Ok 7/20/2016
How come this concept is so hard for people to follow? I understand
when you have to many messages to actually follow but I am
sure not every woman is flooded with messages. How hard
would it be to say no thanks?
2 Comments, 12 Views,
3 Votes
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How to say no thanks 7/13/2016
Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply
say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or
something like that. Remember they are people too.
4 Comments, 23 Views,
5 Votes
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How to say no thanks 7/13/2016
Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply
say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or
something like that. Remember they are people too.
1 Comments, 10 Views,
3 Votes
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hayır 7/12/2016
hayır
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Is it that hard to say no thanks? 7/10/2016
Is it that hard to say no thanks? simple polite response
just saying your not interested?
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0 Votes
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How to eat PUSSY 6/22/2016
Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat
pussy because there are too few of you out there. Furthermore,
some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are
not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help
you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's
found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly.
This is one rare customer and she ...
3 Comments, 39 Views,
3 Votes
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changes on Find a Threesome 6/19/2016
So about three days ago Find a Threesome was at it again change the cam
vire you could not even see you owen cam WTH is going on here
new management or what
1 Comments, 12 Views,
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Find a Threesome CHANGES TP STANDARD MEMBERS 6/13/2016
As modt Standard members now know Find a Threesome is charging point
soe just about everthing. Im CHAT VIDEO VIEW ETC
4 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Don't Ignore, just say what you think! 6/7/2016
Too many folks on here will not just say, "thanks,
but not my type"....what ever happened to being honest
instead of just all of a sudden ignoring some one...rude!
2 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
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An older man and the younger woman ..... 5/20/2016
Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for
the youngest age of a woman a man can date.
So a 59-year old guy can date a 36/37-year
old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 30 years old…I
am now called a pervert or creepy guy.
Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But still so many
people in ...
9 Comments, 242 Views,
15 Votes
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Home 5/6/2016
I'm bored and want points
1 Comments, 11 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Whats the best way to say not interested. 4/27/2016
I have gotten a lot of response to my profile that are younger
then what I am looking for. My profile heading is even Coffee
Buddy 60+ w/benefits". I don't want to be rude,
just I am not looking for younger. A few times I had the same
couples ask repeatedly and finally had to block them.
1 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Why is it diificult for some to at least say "No Thanks"? 4/7/2016
With so many people from all over the world on this site,
it's fair to say you'll find someone you're
interested in meeting with pretty quickly, though it's
also fairly likely that that person may not be interested
in meeting you, for whatever reason.
That's fine, but as far as I'm concerned, basic
courtesy dictates that if you receive a message, then you
at last reply to it, if only to ...
5 Comments, 63 Views,
6 Votes
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when you hear no thanks? 4/4/2016
When you hear no thanks
4 Comments, 21 Views,
1 Votes
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Do you have morals! 3/26/2016
OK so this actually happened to me in about 10 years ago.
I was out partying with my best friend and his wife and we
went to a local bar where we live just to have a good time and
play pool..... As The night went on we all were getting pretty
buzzed up....Now let me say Jennifer his wife is extremely
gorgeous and I admit I've fanatized about her, anyway
I made my way to the bathroom when ...
3 Comments, 44 Views,
3 Votes
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being Gentle 3/23/2016
my own policy when it comes to turning someone down on an
adult site is simply to say, no thank you, thank you for understanding.
There is no advantage at a point of rejection to be offering
specific excuses, as it only creates a defensive situation.
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14 Votes
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