While I am easy going and friendly in social situations, I prefer to take charge in times of intimacy. An interesting first date would be drinks and people watching in a lively restaurant, or downtown hotel bar. A place where we can sit close enough to touch and see if there is a bit of chemistry, a bit of excitement. I enjoy physical touch, bodies in motion, and staying fit. A woman with a good sense of herself that can also relax when a man is willing to take the lead, would make for an enjoyable time together. BTW, I'm the world's best kisser. Making love is like making money, if you're not having fun, you're not doing it right.